When Should I Tell a Trusted Adult?
Tell a trusted adult when your period starts and you need help, when bleeding or pain worries you, when you feel unwell, or any time you feel scared, unsure or not able to cope on your own.
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This section helps kids and teens understand when a period worry needs support from a trusted adult, when a doctor or nurse might help, and which symptoms should never be ignored.
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Tell a trusted adult when your period starts and you need help, when bleeding or pain worries you, when you feel unwell, or any time you feel scared, unsure or not able to cope on your own.
Read thisSee a doctor if your pain is very strong, bleeding is very heavy, symptoms keep stopping normal life, your periods suddenly change a lot, or your period has not started by the mid-teens.
Read thisDo not ignore very heavy bleeding, severe pain, fainting, fever, repeated vomiting, bad dizziness, pain on one side, or any symptom that feels scary, sudden or very different for you.
Read thisAt an appointment, a doctor or nurse will usually ask questions about your periods and symptoms, listen to your worries, and explain what might help next.
Read thisThe clearest things to explain are where it hurts, when it happens, how strong it is, what the bleeding is like, and what it stops you doing.
Read thisFeeling embarrassed is common. You can start with one simple sentence, write a note or text, or ask one safe adult. You do not have to deal with period worries alone.
Read thisIf your pain is dismissed, try again clearly, use examples, explain what the pain stops you doing, and tell another trusted adult or healthcare professional. Your pain still matters.
Read thisUseful things to track are dates, bleeding, pain, other symptoms, and how your period affects school, sleep, sport or daily life.
Read thisGet urgent help if bleeding is extremely heavy, you faint or feel close to fainting, you have severe sudden pain, chest pain, trouble breathing, repeated vomiting, or you feel very unwell…
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You do not need the right words or the correct terms. Type your question the way you would say it out loud, and Luma will point you to a resource that explains it.
You can also tell a parent, carer, teacher or school nurse. A short sentence is enough — you do not have to explain everything.
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