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Quick answer

Feeling awkward is very common. Being embarrassed does not mean you have to deal with everything on your own.

Lots of people feel this way

Many young people feel shy talking about periods, body changes or products. That does not mean anything is wrong with you.

Periods are normal. They are not dirty, silly or shameful.

Try a smaller first step

You can start with: “Can I talk to you privately?” or “I need some help with my period.”

You do not have to explain everything at once.

Writing it down is okay

If the words get stuck, try a note or text message. You could write: “I feel embarrassed saying this, but I need period help.”

Pick a calm moment

Talking may feel easier when fewer people are around. Ask for privacy if you need it.

Words you can use

  • Can we talk in private?
  • I need some help.
  • Can you help me with the next step?
  • I think I need a trusted adult.

Ask Luma

You could ask: “Help me say I feel embarrassed but need period help.”